idkkk asked:


so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. lately he has just seemed distant. he has some medical issues that bother him and are very painful and stressful. i did my best to make him feel better but there is nothing i can really do. since this medical issue (where the pain lasts a couple days) he has been very distant, not texting or talking to me, not kissing me goodbye and just not caring like he used to. so i saw this coming. today he texted me ‘i think it would be best if we took a break for a bit. i hate to be a jerk and possibly ruin things’ i said ok and he said he just needed some time, when i asked him if he wanted it to be over for good he said ‘no i just need some time to get over this (i’m guessing the medical issue) and get myself together.’ then he told me ‘not to be sad or anything. i’m just trying this so i don’t botch anything up between us.’ after a day of not speaking at all he told me it felt awkward not talking to me. then he asked me if i want to be together ir just close friends for now? i said ‘i think friends would be better. i know i want to get back together with you. just not right now.’ then he said ok but i still wanna talk and hang out and stuff. and he said he eventually wants to get back together with me cause he still really really likes me. well its been a day since we had that conversation and i really feel like i want to get back together with him. i miss him so much and all i think about is him. we haven’t talked much in the past couple days because he said he wanted space. im just not sure if it is too soon to ask him if he wants to get back together. how long should i let this temporary split last? what if i wait too long and he gets over me or realizes he doesn’t want to be with me? and how do i tell him i want that? would it be normal just to ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend and to tell him i miss him? i don’t have a clue what to do.

idkkk asked:


so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. lately he has just seemed distant. he has some medical issues that bother him and are very painful and stressful. i did my best to make him feel better but there is nothing i can really do. since this medical issue (where the pain lasts a couple days) he has been very distant, not texting or talking to me, not kissing me goodbye and just not caring like he used to. so i saw this coming. today he texted me ‘i think it would be best if we took a break for a bit. i hate to be a jerk and possibly ruin things’ i said ok and he said he just needed some time, when i asked him if he wanted it to be over for good he said ‘no i just need some time to get over this (i’m guessing the medical issue) and get myself together.’ then he told me ‘not to be sad or anything. i’m just trying this so i don’t botch anything up between us.’ after a day of not speaking at all he told me it felt awkward not talking to me. then he asked me if i want to be together ir just close friends for now? i said ‘i think friends would be better. i know i want to get back together with you. just not right now.’ then he said ok but i still wanna talk and hang out and stuff. and he said he eventually wants to get back together with me cause he still really really likes me. well its been a day since we had that conversation and i really feel like i want to get back together with him. i miss him so much and all i think about is him. we haven’t talked much in the past couple days because he said he wanted space. im just not sure if it is too soon to ask him if he wants to get back together. how long should i let this temporary split last? what if i wait too long and he gets over me or realizes he doesn’t want to be with me? and how do i tell him i want that? would it be normal just to ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend and to tell him i miss him? i don’t have a clue what to do.