What is the best way to get your ex boyfriend back?
February 25, 2011 by admin
Julie Jacobs asked:
He broke up with me a week ago and I don’t know what to do..is there anyone that can help me?
He broke up with me a week ago and I don’t know what to do..is there anyone that can help me?
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The best way to get him back is to move on. By getting revenge you’re telling him that you still care, and that he’s still taking up your time. It’ll just boost his ego.
its still a week so you’re obviously going to still have feelings for him. best thing to do is just move on, because that’ll tell him that you dont need him, which MAY make you want him back. relationships work in weird ways
Grow up and get over him. You broke up for a reason.
You do what millions of people do when someone breaks up with them – you go on. You cut your losses. You get busy doing things with friends. Time heals all wounds – trite but true. There was a reason for the break-up and that isn’t going to change. You do NOT try to get him back because in the long run you would be wasting your time and your life AND his. It only delays the day when you will meet someone else with whom you will be better suited.
Sneak into his bedroom and wait for him there.He probably misses you by now.
Either talk to him, or do what my boyfriend did to me when I broke up with him. He was talking to me on fb and said he had a new girlfriend and it really hurt since we had just broken up a week before, and he was saying she was so pretty and stuff and I asked if I could add her on fb and I found out he was lying and he said he had a new gf to make me jealous. Jealousy always works because now we are back together and been this way for almost 3 months! Make him so jealous, like one day show up to school and look gorgeous. I mean go all out with your hair, a lil make-up, really really sexy or cute outfit. He will either get jealous and regret his decision or his friends will be like dude you dumped her and one might chase after you and he will want you back! Good Luck
easy. well not really but here are some steps
1. look hot as hell, change something up. a new wardrobe, hair or go hit the gym
2. dont show any type of emotions towards him i know inside you want to talk to him and cry and beg him back but that will make him run away faster
3. lose contact with him. make him wonder where you are and what your doing for a couple of weeks
4. act like you didnt really mind the break up. tell him in the end it was for the best
5. have fun. go out with friends. put up pictures on fb of you hanging out with people at clubs or parties. have a guy in the picture as well but dont start dating. it will make him think you are way done with him.
6. find out why he broke up. have you changed? remember what it was about you that made him want to ask you out in the first place and be that girl again
men are visual creatures, more so than women so when he sees you looking really gorgeous he will want you. especially if you improved yourself. second men like to chase. they want what they cant have. so when you trick him into thinking you are over him and having fun he will want you back. and of course be the girl he fell in love with but more mature, more beautiful and more experienced. you know him well now.
after the couple of weeks of no contact if he hasnt already contacted you call him. make it brief but just ask him how he is. make sure you end the convo. and slowly let him increase the time you communicate and even hang out. if after all this he doesnt show interest give it one last shot. show him the improved you and tell him how you feel. if he says no then im sorry, he really didnt want you. but if this guy truly loved you he can love you again. people dont JUST fall out of love. theres always something that happened. like for me i was a bad gf to my ex. i didnt cheat but i wasnt nice. but now im doing what i described above and he has been calling me everyday. it works
and im showing my new self and he is loving it. hehe
Just as Starbaby said, make sure you look hot from now on and also make sure he sees you and he´ll ask you back , relationships work in a very funny way.
I agree with the other contributors. Go on with your life. Don’t try to analyze the relationship. It’s not worth it. Take the time to make yourself happy right now. Do what you want to do and don’t let anyone get in your way. i know this because I too was in a relationship recently where he told me that he wanted to marry me but within 3 weeks he retracted everything he said. I moved out from his place last Saturday and I’m now shacking up at my brothers place sleeping on a blow-up mattress because my bed couldn’t fit up the stairs… Anyway, I digress.
Move on, making yourself happy is the best revenge. Good luck and God bless.
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Good Luck!!!
If you apply the principles in this guide asap the better chances of you getting back together!
Hi,
Was responding to your question about getting your ex-boyfriend back and I found the following tips on getting your ex back pretty helpful when I was going thru the same thing. When you click on the link it will ask for the email address you want the info sent to. Hope it helps and good luck!
Claudette
1. Chasing you ex. This is a big no-no. If you chase her or him with phone calls, emails, sending your friends as messengers and any other tricks, the only thing that will happen is that your ex start hating or fearing you. This leaves no chance of comeback what so ever.
2. Stalking your ex – again, a big no-no. If you will try to force them to see you by ambushing her or him you will only make things worse. People will start calling you “a stalker” and you will find it hard to make new friends this way.
3. Being depressed – If you let yourself slide into depression, other areas of your life will suffer. Some people even lost their job because their relationship came to an end. Don’t let this happen to you.
4. Avoiding social life – If you will become a hermit as a result of a break up, that again you will only be punishing yourself. There is a big world out there, and you can find love. Be that your ex or another person.
So, what should you do? If you really want to start seeing how to get your ex back, try practicing the next 4 ways of action.
1. Create more value for yourself – When your ex left you, in many cases it was because she did not value you and your relationship high enough to stay. Therefore, your job is to create more value for yourself. For example, if you’re a man, you can build more value by her hearing about you meeting other women.
2. Stay in touch – though it may hurt, stay in touch with your ex. This can be with email or sms, if you are not comfortable talking. When you do that, you remain her or him of the good times you had together and you also signal that there is a way back.
3. Do a make over – in many cases, being in a relationship for more than a year makes you less groomed. If you feel you’ve been neglecting yourself lately, start going to the gym and buy new and cool clothes. This will make you feel better about yourself and you will resonate that feeling to your surroundings. Your ex will feel that too.
4. Let her or him seek you out – Don’t chase your ex around. Let them come to you. Doing all the things we just talked about will help you regain your confidence and your ex will feel that. Confident people attract other people, and your ex will be attracted to you again.
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